How did I arrive at these three words? Through the following reflections shared with me by my pal Michele Lenox, through the miracle of Facebook.
What are five (or ten) accomplishments of 2014?
1. Completing - and continuing - my elimination diet/"detox" in July with Janelle Casella
2. Paying off the $90,000+ in student loans I had when I finished graduate school in 1997
3. Slogging through 100 happy days
4. Initiating a meditation practice
5. Buying my first ever brand new car
6. Getting a new cat
7. FINALLY building those bookshelves in our living room so I can FINALLY unpack my books
8. Starting to explore where to put my volunteer energy
9. Contributing to winning a major new contract for the company for which I *used* to work
10. Laying the groundwork to start a business with my husband
What were five (or ten) disappointments?
1. 5+ bouts with poison ivy, including one that lingered for six weeks
2. Learning my new car CAN'T accommodate a hitch for a rear kayak rack
3. The continuing sluggishness of the consultant economy
4. Learning my husband's health issues have not yet been resolved
5. Lots of little trips, but no significant vacation
What are three things I focused a majority of my energy on?
1. For the first ten months of the year, my job
2. My husband's health
3. My eating and exercise habits
What are three things I intended to do, but (doh!) didn't?
1. Lose 10 pounds
2. Make it all the way through a couch to 5K program (see poison ivy note above)
3. Build a patio/landscape the backyard
What were my game changers - unexpected events or outcomes that made things different for you - in 2014?
1. Getting a new job - same work, same salary, infinitely shorter commute and infinitely more functional company - in one month rather than the nine to 18 months I was expecting
2. The social upheaval initiated by the events in Ferguson
How do these reflections inform my intentions for 2015?
With the shorter commute and a shift in my attitude about work, my new job opened up more time - to take care of myself, my home, my family, my marriage and my community.
So how to use this time? 2014 reminded me that I love how I feel when I make healthy choices. I love investing in having a beautiful (to me) home and garden. And I feel satisfied when I contribute to making my community a happier and healthier place - particularly for people who may not have the same advantages as I do.
So what are my three words for 2015?
- Health: This word was selected to remind me that I intend to detox from booze (starting today - oy, that vodka hangover is uncomfortable), get control of my allergies (allergy testing starts on Monday), continue to be in love with my Ninja Bullet and the healthy food it inspires me to make (and eat), and continue to count steps and exercise so I can be ready for outdoor adventures (see below).
- Home: This word was selected to remind me that I intend to finish building a fence in the backyard so I can have an anchor for my landscaping. I will build raised beds for vegetable gardening along with a woodshed for the fire pit and its accoutrement. And the result, a backyard I can feel proud to entertain in during the summer and early fall.
- Adventure: This word is in my list of five priorities and reminds me to continue to try to find adventures in my every day life by (a) working to live (as opposed to living to work), (b) developing a mindfulness practice through meditation and writing, and (c) generally being actively engaged with my life, my family and my community. (It also reminds me to buy a kayak rack so I can have kayak adventures near and far, work towards launching the business BMG and I care cooking up, and and to begin getting excited about the two-week vacation in Europe BMG and I are taking to celebrate his birthday)
What about you? What are your three words for 2015? And what is the story of how you selected them and what they mean for you?